How to Free Abundance Money Blocks – 1

How to free abundance money blocksIt would be good to know how to free abundance money blocks wouldn’t it? Yes being the only answer!

If it’s no, well done. You don’t need to read any further, because you’ve already solved, and cleared, any abundance money blocks you may have had.

If scarcity is a lie, then what’s stopping you from being abundant? Blockages around making money, receiving money, saving money, spending money, giving money is what stops you.

Everyone will have their own pet block’s to work with. Because those blocks have become part of who you’re being, it’s going to take some commitment to find a way to rid yourself of them, one by one.

In the first instance you should recognise what caused those blocks. Your life today is made up of the thoughts, beliefs and actions from your past. Unfortunately, most of those came from well-meaning others, who believed they had your best interests at heart.

It does’t always follow that what worked for them is best for you. It’s time to let it go.

The best tool I’ve found, is the ‘who does this belong to?’ tool. Try asking this question for 3 days with everything that pops into your head. It’s only for a few days, and well worth the effort, to see what effect it has.

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The Scarcity Lie

The Scarcity LieI’ve been living a lie. The Scarcity Lie. Instead of seeing, and appreciating, the wealth of abundance that exists all around me, I’ve been searching for what I perceived as being missing. Doh.

I’ve read numerous books on the Law of Attraction. In fact, I’ve read most books that cover abundance in all it’s myriad and spectacular forms.

I’ve loved and enjoyed everything that’s shown up for me. But then, my eyes would start to look for what I believed was missing, and maybe, just maybe, would make my life even better. Double doh.

I thought I knew the answer to living an abundance life. I just needed to practice all the tips, the advice and the exercises I’d read about, for it to show up. I missed the fact that I was already living an abundant life!

I’d already learnt that happiness doesn’t depend on anything, or anyone, showing up from the amazing Jamie Smart. He taught me that happiness is a natural state, my birthright, as it’s yours. No more “I’ll be happy when…” scenario’s for me.

A pretty good life all round. So, what was missing, and why was I still searching?

I’ll tell you why. It’s because, at some point, I bought into the scarcity lie.

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Being the Best

Life is meant to be an expression of your joyWhat does being the best mean to you? To me, being the best is when you shine radiantly, as you give your all to living life with passion, whatever you’re doing.

So what does shining radiantly mean? It’s all in your level of engagement. When you give something your best shot, you find you become absorbed in the matter in hand too.

It’s the only thing on your mind as it commands your full attention. Something you’re doing because you want to do.

Not always something you’re particularly keen on, you decide to do it anyway. You shine radiantly because you have committed 100% to the task in hand. Giving it your best shot, and then, something extra, until completion.

The difference is that you found a way to enjoy yourself whilst dancing through it. Simply being the best you that you can be.

This is a key factor to growing, and enhancing, your Inner Well-Being. Planting, feeding and growing, your own little seeds of happiness, as you make your choices on a daily basis.

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Inspirational Insight for Inner Well-Being – Rays of Love

I am a soul who speaks‘Enjoy the rays of love and abundance, dancing merrily alongside you. It’s your inner beauty shining forth for all the world to see.’ – Jan Marchant

I bet you never realised how beautiful you truly are. Honestly, your inner beauty shines out from every inch of you, as you dance through life.

It’s taken commitment to unmask who you secretly yearned to be, but now you stand strong, wrapped in the love of a benevolent Universe.

You’ve explored the highs and lows of love and fear.

Some days have been easier than others.

Other days have been tempests that raged inside, and outside of you, trying to disrupt the love you’ve been growing.

Inner well-being is your prize. Love and abundance your gift from a benevolent Universe.

For an abundant life is full of loving acts, loving people and endless opportunities to be love in action.

The sun, the stars and the moon shower you with rays of love and abundance, enhancing your bewitching beauty.

Shine bright, you bobby dazzler you. Because your love is truly a gift to the world.

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You are the Mirror of Your Thoughts

Marcus-Aurelius-Quote-Sallie-KeysI’ve been thinking about how you are the mirror of your thoughts, and how it affects every single moment of life.

Marcus Aurelius said; ‘The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts’. A truth that hits you squarely between the eyes. It’s also a truth that many choose to ignore.

I have this sneaky feeling that everyone I meet, every action I take, is a test designed to help me grow my inner well-being.

Don’t like a remark, do I snap a rejoinder, or do I smile and let it pass. Depends on the person making the remark! Guess what? My reaction is neither here, nor there. What’s important is what I’m thinking about the original remark. What substance am I giving it.

I may be smiling sweetly to avoid getting into a discussion that may or, may not, prove my point of view. Or, I might throw my point of view into the ring to see what response I provoke.

Horses for courses. It all depends how the mood takes me.

The point is that it’s irrelevant. The only thing that has any bearing on my inner well-being is the actual thought I’m having about that original remark.

Am I smarting on the inside, feeling slightly foolish at what appears to be a ‘dig’ at me, or my understanding of something? Do I think I’ve been insulted, been the butt of someone’s joke, or just uncomfortable as it pushed a ‘poor me’ button?

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Loves Testing Times

Loves Testing TimesHave you noticed how many testing times you’ve lived through? The testing times are challenges sent by the Universe. Designed to move us from fear to love, they can range from easy to deal with to life changing experiences.

Isn’t it strange how often similar scenarios show up, literally testing our abilities to deal with what life throws at us. So, what exactly is going on?

My experience is that the testing times will show up in different guises until, you get what you need to grow your understanding. It’s about learning to love ourselves, warts and all.

Once we pass one test, by detaching from any emotional attachment to the outcome, we are moved onto the next challenge required to grow our inner well-being.

We come in the world happy, but helpless, dependent of those around us to help us grow. Physically as well as mentally. It’s a true testing time to communicate isn’t it!

Unless you’re one of the fortunate babies, most of what you learnt will have come from fear rather than love. And that includes fear from loving adults who, with the best intentions, only wanted to protect from the big, bad world.

You learnt to be good, to behave in a certain way, to fit in with those around you. Love became a commodity to be bought or sold. It’s the way of the world.

But, love is everyone’s birthright, and so begins the journey to return to love.

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Inspirational Insight for Inner Well-Being – Joy

Joy‘Pleasure is always derived from something outside you, whereas joy arises from within.’ – Eckhart Tolle

Pleasure is defined as a state of feeling pleased.

It can include amusement, gratification, indulgence, or simply be a delightful experience.

What’s your pleasure?

Here’s the thing. Pleasure comes from seeking something created outside of you.

There’s nothing wrong with that, it would be pretty dull without life’s pleasures to lift, and amuse us.

Joy is something else altogether.

It’s an intense feeling that fills you with the happiness of being you.

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The Joy of Surrendering to Love

The Joy of Surrendering to LoveThe joy of surrendering to love is one of life’s blessings. Unfortunately, the twin nemesis of expectations and neediness often create  barriers to love, whilst allowing fear to slip through and hold sway.

How do I know? I know because, I allowed myself to be a victim of expectations and neediness for a large chunk of my life. I believe it started at a young age when, I confused getting my genuine needs met, with demanding as much attention as I could get.

The more my demands were met, the more my expectations grew into the belief that, if I cried long enough I would eventually get the attention I desired. The problem was I never grew out of it. Consequently, without realising, I had placed my happiness and well-being into the hands of others.

Don’t blame my parents. With five of us to attend to they did a brilliant job. Feelings, emotions and all points in-between never came into the equation. It wasn’t the ‘done thing’ to discuss topics such as these. Goodness me, NO.

The problems, growing from my expectations and all-consuming neediness, was never addressed. Hey ho, that’s just how things were.

Honestly I grew up in a golden age. I’ve always known how lucky I am. It didn’t matter how much I believed my expectations were left unmet, or my neediness side-lined, I knew that, nevertheless, I was a lucky person.

As long as I behaved at school, ate what was put in front of me and returned home at the proper times, I could pretty much run free. I had friends and family to share good times with, I was blessed.

If the world was my oyster, why did I pushed it away? The dust in my eyes prevented me from appreciating how blessed I was. With my expectations spiraling out of control, I grew my attitude of wanting more instead.

This attitude spilled over into all areas of my life. And, let’s face it, what you focus on grows.

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Making Do and Mend Syndrome

Making Do and Mend SyndromeMaking do and mend syndrome sufferers, well they make do and mend. But what does that mean? It means that make do and menders never, ever think they’re good enough for something better. Using cost as an excuse, there’ll always be a reason for making do with what they already have.

I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with that, if everything still performs as it should. But you’d be amazed how many people put up with second best. Even when it costs time and money.

Precious time that can never be replaced, let alone what it does to your inner well-being as it saps the life out of you.

Like all syndromes, make do and mend is such a familiar way of being, that most of the time, sufferers don’t even know they’ve got it. The daily grind goes on and on, relentlessly diverting your peace of mind, happiness and inner well-being. It’s literally soul destroying.

Drip. Drip. Drip. The torment goes on until you recognise that there could be a problem.

For example, I’ve been working on my laptop for a number of years now. It’s familiar, I know where everything is. I know how to boot it, to fiddle with it until it does what I want it to and I keep forgetting to investigate upgrading it. At least, that’s what I’d been telling myself.

But my laptop is my work horse. It’s my communications life line. Do I want to work with a donkey or a thoroughbred?

It doesn’t matter how many times I dangle a carrot at it, it just doesn’t want to play ball any longer.

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The Challenge of Being Happy

Be HappyThich Nhat Hanh wrote: ‘The amount of happiness that you have depends on the amount of freedom you have in your heart’. A challenging statement if you believe being happy depends on what’s going on in your life.

It’s only true if you let what’s going on determine whether you’re happy. Believe it, or not, you always get to choose whether you live a fear full life, or a love full live.

It’s a lot easier to be happy when you choose love.

It took me a long time to learn that freedom, or happiness, isn’t something you search for outside of yourself. I learned that it already exists deep within everyone.

Once you know that for the truth, your focus turns to finding ways to free yourself.

We all face challenges. Those challenges are different for each of us. The real challenge is whether you let them determine your actions through fear or love. Each, and every, challenge is an opportunity to free up a little more space in your heart.

When actions are taken from a place of fear inspired thoughts, it’s impossible to be happy. Thoughts such as; ‘YOU’LL NEVER BE FREE OF THIS’, YOU’LL NEVER BE HAPPY AGAIN’, play havoc with your mind, keeping you in a fearful place.

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